How to Stop Worrying and Feel Less Anxious

Overcoming Anxiety and Worry

First, we want to commend you for taking the initiative to seek resources for reducing your worry and managing your anxiety. It takes strength and courage to recognize that these feelings can be overwhelming and to actively seek healthier ways of coping. Remember, you are not alone in this journey, and by implementing some strategies and incorporating positive changes into your life, you can find relief and cultivate a sense of peace. Remember, there is always hope, whether working on your own, or with one of the trained therapist at New Hope Psychotherapy.

Effects of Anxiety and Worry

Anxiety, worry, and stress can have a profound impact on our mental, emotional, and physical well-being. The constant state of unease and tension that accompanies these feelings can hinder our ability to function optimally in our daily lives. They can disrupt our sleep patterns, impair our concentration and productivity, and strain our relationships with our spouse and children. Moreover, prolonged exposure to high levels of anxiety, worry, and stress can lead to various health issues, including cardiovascular problems and weakened immune systems. It is imperative to prioritize self-care and seek support when experiencing these challenges, as managing and alleviating anxiety, worry, and stress is crucial for overall well-being and quality of life.

Coping Strategies: Self-Medication

When left un-managed, struggling with chronic anxiety and worry can result in unhelpful self-medication strategies. Self-medication suggest that people end up using substances, such as drugs or alcohol, or engaging in addictive eating or gambling patterns, as a well of changing undesired emotional states. While these may initially numb the feelings of anxiety and worry, long-term studies show that ongoing usage can lead to worsening of anxiety, decrease ability to regulate emotions and overall hindrance to personal growth and healing. By working with a supportive and non-judgmental therapist, you can develop alternative healthy coping mechanisms that address the root causes of anxiety and promote long-term well-being. 

Interrupting the Anxiety and Worry Cycle

The worry-anxiety cycle can feel all-consuming, trapping individuals, couples, and even families, in a never-ending loop of fear and distress. For example, feelings of anxiety can lead to negative thinking and incessant worry, which may be avoided due to discomfort, in effect, offering short-term relief. Unfortunately, the long-term effects of this type of coping strategy include worsened physical symptoms of anxiety (e.g. headaches, stomach aches, loss of energy, sleep issues), more worry, and ultimately low self-esteem and ability to focus. 

However, amidst this seemingly relentless cycle, there is hope. Collaborating with a skilled therapist can be a beacon of light, guiding clients towards a path of healing and resilience. By uncovering underlying causes of anxiety, along with unhelpful coping patterns, your therapist can teach effective coping strategies, empowering you to break free from the grips of worry. Through empathy, compassion, and evidence-baed interventions, therapists provide a space for individuals to explore their fears and develop new perspectives. With their guidance, clients can cultivate inner-strength, regain control over their lives, and embrace a future brimming with hope and possibility.  

Undoing the Worry-Cycle and Finding Peace

If you are struggling with excessive worry, feeling like your going crazy or feeling trapped in the spiral of negative thinking, then it’s time to stop the cycle. Here are some next steps you can take to start undoing the worry-cycle, reclaim control of your life, and find new possibility. 

  1. Mindfulness and Meditation: Practicing mindfulness and meditation techniques can significantly reduce anxiety levels. These practices encourage you to focus on the present moment, helping to shift your attention away from worries about the past or future. Consider exploring apps like Headspace or Calm, which provide guided meditations and mindfulness exercises.

  2. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT): CBT is a proven therapeutic approach that helps individuals identify and challenge negative thought patterns. By recognizing and replacing irrational thoughts, you can gain control over your anxiety. Consider seeking therapy from a certified CBT practitioner. They will guide you in developing coping mechanisms to manage worry effectively.

  3. Physical Activity: Engaging in regular physical exercise can have tremendous benefits for both your physical and mental well-being. Exercise releases endorphins, which improve mood and reduce stress levels. Find an activity you enjoy, whether it's going for a jog, joining a dance class, or practicing yoga. Experiment until you find what works best for you.

  4. Self-Care: Prioritizing self-care is essential for managing anxiety. Take time each day to engage in activities that bring you joy and relaxation. This could be reading a book, taking a bubble bath, practicing a hobby, or anything else that makes you feel good. Remember, self-care is not selfish; it's a vital part of maintaining a healthy mind.

  5. Support Network: Surround yourself with a supportive network of friends, family, or a therapist who understands and empathizes with your struggles. They can offer guidance, a listening ear, or simply be there for you during difficult times. Remember, it's okay to ask for help when needed.

  6. Take the First Step
    By booking a session with one of our trained and empathic therapists.
    Remember, progress takes time, so be patient with yourself. Celebrate even the smallest victories and keep an open mind as you explore these resources. With dedication and a positive mindset, you can break free from the grip of anxiety and embrace a life

Take the First Step

If you are are ready to take the first toward reducing your worry and and anxiety, or simply seeking some support as you continue your process of conquering your anxiety, we encourage you to consider therapy with one of our trained and experienced therapist. Today is the perfect day to take the first step towards a thriving future. Contact New Hope Psychotherapy and let us guide you towards rediscovering hope. 

Genesis Urena, LCSW

Genesis Urena, LCSW, is the founder of New Hope Psychotherapy LCSW, LLC and a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with a passion for working with adults, children, families and couples who are seeking a transformative life experience.

Genesis is a trauma-informed specialist who believes everyone should have a safe and healing place to work through life’s challenges. He uses his role as a therapist and educator to help families and couples grow closer and develop meaningful relationships.

Rather than drawing from one methodology for all individuals and issues, Genesis draws on a variety of methods to create a tailored approach for each individual, couple, and situation. As a therapist, Genesis is encouraging, creative, and has a down-to-earth approach that is present and rewarding.

His experience includes ongoing volunteer work with community-based organizations and municipalities dedicated to bringing awareness of mental health issues across all communities, with particular focus to BIPOC communities. As well as, presenting ongoing classes on trauma, grief, and couples therapy.

He holds certificates as a Prepare-Enrich Couple’s Facilitator, Certified Sex Addictions Therapist, Trauma-Informed therapist, U.S. Military Star Behavioral Provider, and SIFI-Supervisor.

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